My Views on Relationships
The thing about relationships is that it should be based on truth and love. It has become highly unlikely since the very motives behind relationships are are FALSE. Why is this?How do i find Mr/Miss Right?
Here are my opinions on relationships, are you in a relationship or try to go into one, here are a few points on relationships you may like to consider.
My Opinion 1 - Truth
Satan is the originator of all lies and the father of all liars, to find the right partner find a Child of God.
God is truth and likewise his children. A true child of God cares about your feelings and would be very honest with you.
My Opinion 2 - Love
God is love. And true love is patient, kind, long-suffering, able to endure all things (1 Corinthians 13:4-8). If you need the right partner for a relationship, you need to find a true child of God.
A true child of God has God inside him/herself and is therefore capable of expressing love.
Satan is wicked and always disguises himself to deceive if possible even the children of God.So be careful of those you
call your boyfriends and girlfriends, be sure you're not dealing with Satan's children.
Any person who has not been born into the family of God is a child of the devil and cannot express true love.
They may appear to be nice, good looking and to posses all that you want in your relationship but the truth is that they do not have the capacity to express genuine love. They are being ruled by the lust inside of them and
when they get it satisfied they will dump you like rubbish and look for the next bait.
I tell you, true love can only be expressed by true children of God. Notice emphasis on TRUE. Not everyone who calls himself/herself a Christian is a child of God, they may be at all church gatherings and partake in all church activities but that does not make a person a true Child of God, there are too many fake people in church professing to be Children of God. Be sure you are with a true child of God.
My Opinion 3 - Chastity
Mind you, there are lots of teachings on the internet now & printed materials encouraging singles to have sex, they talk of healthy benefits of sexual intercourse and some even claim that the Bible does not classify single sex as a sin. Hmmmm I'm not convinced.
Not everything we find online or on printed materials equate to the TRUTH. Truth is ONE. The word of God tells us that we shall know the truth and the truth shall set us free. Finding the truth concerning chastity is what I try to do here.
I think you should run away from sex if you are unmarried. Why? It is a very big fat SIN.
A friend quotes the scripture that says "I don't really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don't do it. Instead, I do what I hate."
(NLT Romans 7:15) just to encourage the acts of immorality.
Don't just quote any scripture to suit your needs & deceive others. Sex outside marriage is a SIN, how ever you want to look at it. So please abstain.
That's my view.
The reason people engage in sexual immoral acts is because such people engage in the viewing of pornographic content. They get addicted to the viewing pornography which then propels them to try out what is being communicated through the pornographic content. Porn is a very dangerous weapon Satan is using to destroy most of the youth of our time. Immorality is widely spread due to porn addiction.
When you are used to watching porn you open yourself up to be possessed by devils who control your sexual edges and causing you to be ruled by lust which is also a spirit.
Why view pornography when there's a lot of Christian and God driven materials like Godly inspired music, movies, preachings, teaching, miracle services and so much more??
It requires the Holy Spirit to destroy the power of porn addiction, if you find yourself in porn addiction and suffering masturbation or worse of engaged in sexual intercourse with people you are not married to please find a true Man of God you can trust and share with him/her, you would be helped to stop the evil habit that can lead you straight to hell.
If you do not find such people around you just pray to God, as Jesus Christ to be your only Lord and Personal Saviour, talk to him about the issues you're facing and ask him to empower you with the gift of the Holy Spirit and you're life will never be the same again. Jesus Christ Sets you free.
Remaining chaste comes with it many blessings. God himself will grant you peace in your marriage when you remain chaste for him. True love is only found in Jesus Christ.
God Bless you.
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